By Andy Weddington
Thursday, 21 December 2017
Reality: What a concept! Robin Williams
This morning came email with news from a longtime friend in Sweden that he's dealing with prostate cancer.
He knows of our battle with breast cancer and commented about opting for the aggressive treatment protocol.
Prognosis good. But sobering stuff.
Reality: What a concept!
Well, it's rainy and chilly and curl-up-with-a-good-book-and-cup-of-coffee gloomy gray.
Snow showers on the way.
The fireplace aft aglow.
A shrimp dip to satisfy more than three dozen folks tomorrow evening made and fridged to chill.
The occasion, a neighborhood progressive dinner.
Our quarters the conservative stop (a co-host, detesting anything progressive, adamant we post a welcome sign on the front door declaring so - so we shall - humor to set the tone).
Traditional Chex mix and seasoned oyster crackers done, too.
A modified guacamole recipe later today.
During short breaks quick scans of news and social media for the latest.
The tax bill all the talk.
Entertaining it is.
To a no nonsense comment offered about the tax bill on social media came this ...
"Unfortunately, he doesn't care about the feelings of folks he doesn't know or hardly knows. His comments are often rude, snarky, and callous. I've been on the receiving end, too. If you're going to engage with Andy on FB, then you just have to know it's coming and buckle up. I've chosen to stop engaging, because I'd rather do without the chauvinism, belittlement, and sexism coming at me. Play at your own risk. Good luck!"
After laughing out loud, wiping tears, and gathering my composure, a short note of thanks for the 'made my day and it's early' compliment.
Facts, insensitively stated, are not for the faint of heart. Such is my unapologetic way.
Girlfriends care about feelings.
Marines care about facts, truths, and actions directly stated and carried out as to preclude confusion and misunderstanding - less someone get injured or killed.
Hurt feelings heal.
Rude, snarky, and callous are opinions.
If one has not a substantive argument then it's wise not to engage.
Considering I am married (over three decades) to a Naval officer (female), the chauvinism, belittlement, and sexism is especially delicious. Good grief.
One does not require luck when engaging with me.
But brains and sound logical argument, with facts not fake news, required.
Otherwise, buckle up is right.
Anyway, that remark was penned by a snowflake - who's "logic" is heart driven.
We live different worlds. And suspect her Marine veteran infantryman father would agree.
Her sacrifices to fellow man and the greater good of our country? No idea.
As to snowflakes, last evening in the studio came an idea for a large painting ...
'Snowflake Rally,' I call it for now.
In closing ...
While enjoying that sweet aroma of cooking shrimp in crab boil, it dawned on me there's but a simple reply to any politically themed comment coming from a snowflake ...
Reality: What a concept!
Good tidings, to all.
God Jul!, my friend.